Democracy
is disagreement.

Avoiding political conversations won't bring us any closer — but treating others with respect and civility will. Learning to disagree without contempt is the only way to rebuild faith in our democratic system. We know, easier said than done, but hear us out.
Cox and Moore
Proud Americans

Utah Governor Spencer Cox and Maryland Governor Wes Moore remind us that politics is important but shouldn't define us or destroy our relationships.

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Divided and
Disappointed

Most Americans are politically engaged but worried about our future and want to find ways to improve and unify. We call them the exhausted majority. Sound familiar?

“No established democracy in recent history has been as deeply polarized as the U.S.”

—Carnegie Endowment for International Peace

61%
of Americans describe the country as divided
70%
are frustrated and disappointed—describing America as racist, intolerant, and chaotic
1 in 5
Americans are estranged from a family member because of political differences

Real Results

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We started with 23 governors and mayors. We filmed their stories and shared their commitment to reach across the aisle and Disagree Better with the world.

An independent Stanford study showed those Disagree Better videos featuring the Governors and Mayors to 6,500 study participants to see if their example made an impact.

The results were clear: The divide got smaller. People were more open to listening and discussing. They were willing to set aside preconceived notions and consider another point of view.

Discuss. Debate. Disagree. But do it better.
  1. Be curious
  2. Listen to understand
  3. Respect opinions
  4. Find common ground
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Governors and mayors lead the charge.

Nearly 250 politicians (and growing) across the country are committed to Disagree Better and are showing how to put it into action.

Governor Spencer Cox
Utah
Governor Jared Polis
Colorado
Governor Eric Holcomb
Indiana
Mayor Clint Lamb
Sullivan, Indiana
Governor Mike Parson
Missouri
Governor Laura Kelly
Kansas
Governor Wes Moore
Maryland
Mayor Jack Coburn
Lonaconing, Maryland
Governor Michelle Lujan Grisham
New Mexico
Governor Mark Gordon
Wyoming
Governor Kay Ivey
Alabama
Mayor Walt Maddox
Tuscaloosa, Alabama
Governor John Carney
Delaware
Governor Kathy Hochul
New York
Governor Phil Murphy
New Jersey
Governor Pedro Pierluisi
Puerto Rico
Governor Janet Mills
Maine
Governor Phil Scott
Vermont
Governor Chris Sununu
New Hampshire
Governor Daniel McKee
Rhode Island
Governor Kevin Stitt
Oklahoma
Governor Josh Green
Hawaii
Governor Albert Bryan
Virgin Islands
Governor Bill Lee
Nashville
Governor Tim Walz
Minnesota
Governor Maura Healey
Massachusetts
Governor Spencer Cox
Utah
Governor Jared Polis
Colorado
Governor Eric Holcomb
Indiana
Mayor Clint Lamb
Sullivan, Indiana
Governor Mike Parson
Missouri
Governor Laura Kelly
Kansas
Governor Wes Moore
Maryland
Mayor Jack Coburn
Lonaconing, Maryland
Governor Michelle Lujan Grisham
New Mexico
Governor Mark Gordon
Wyoming
Governor Kay Ivey
Alabama
Mayor Walt Maddox
Tuscaloosa, Alabama
Governor John Carney
Delaware
Governor Kathy Hochul
New York
Governor Phil Murphy
New Jersey
Governor Pedro Pierluisi
Puerto Rico
Governor Janet Mills
Maine
Governor Phil Scott
Vermont
Governor Chris Sununu
New Hampshire
Governor Daniel McKee
Rhode Island
Governor Kevin Stitt
Oklahoma
Governor Josh Green
Hawaii
Governor Albert Bryan
Virgin Islands
Governor Bill Lee
Nashville
Governor Tim Walz
Minnesota
Governor Maura Healey
Massachusetts
Governor Spencer Cox
Utah
Governor Jared Polis
Colorado
Governor Eric Holcomb
Indiana
Mayor Clint Lamb
Sullivan, Indiana
Governor Mike Parson
Missouri
Governor Laura Kelly
Kansas
Governor Wes Moore
Maryland
Mayor Jack Coburn
Lonaconing, Maryland
Governor Michelle Lujan Grisham
New Mexico
Governor Mark Gordon
Wyoming
Governor Kay Ivey
Alabama
Mayor Walt Maddox
Tuscaloosa, Alabama
Governor John Carney
Delaware
Governor Kathy Hochul
New York
Governor Phil Murphy
New Jersey
Governor Pedro Pierluisi
Puerto Rico
Governor Janet Mills
Maine
Governor Phil Scott
Vermont
Governor Chris Sununu
New Hampshire
Governor Daniel McKee
Rhode Island
Governor Kevin Stitt
Oklahoma
Governor Josh Green
Hawaii
Governor Albert Bryan
Virgin Islands
Governor Bill Lee
Nashville
Governor Tim Walz
Minnesota
Governor Maura Healey
Massachusetts
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