Healthy Conflict for
Real Solutions
Join the movement to build a nation
on conflict done right
Avoiding difficult conversations won’t bring us any closer, but treating others with respect will.
Learning to discuss and disagree without being contemptuous is the only way to rebuild our civic spaces.
Disagree Better is a movement that helps Americans learn that conflict can be healthy if done right.
The Lack of Healthy Conflict
is More Evident Than Ever
Most Americans are frustrated and fatigued with the current political climate. They want a more functional society and government. Social scientists call them the "exhausted majority". Sound familiar?
No established democracy in recent history has been as deeply polarized as the U.S.
—Carnegie Endowment for International Peace
The Right Movement
for Our Time




Disagree Better started when nearly half the US governors committed to improve how they engaged in political discourse.
Learn why these leaders are dedicated to make Disagree Better the new norm.




We All Can Do Better
Better Conversations,
Fewer Battles
Simple techniques to stay curious, not combative, and make progress without perfect alignment. Try one tip now. Small steps. Big results.
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Simple techniques to stay curious, not combative, and make progress without perfect alignment. Try one tip now. Small steps. Big results.